The Jon and Kate Gosselin Breakup: I Blame Mady

Well, Kate is terribly controlling and bitchy, but Jon seems to be far to laxed. He just lets her boss him around and complies. I am sure this has been going on since and before the twins. It just wasn’t on national TV. Jon should have stood up instead of standing down! And Mady? Well, she has a big attitude problem withou a doubt. The apple didn’t fall far from the tree, i.e. like mother like daughter! There are several of the six tuplets that display attitudes such as Kate. More than just two or three of these eight kids are displaying big time problems and this is only going to grow and grow. This family is only beginning to see the problems which are surfacing right before the public’s eye. Whether we see it on TV in the future you can bet this family (kids) are going to develope some serious attitude and unlawful problems in the future. Hate to see it, but it has already surfaced and growing.

I think Jon should just continue on the laid back attitude. Why waste the engergy yelling back at Kate? This program has taken a new direction and we are all watching not to see the growth of the eight children with one exception, Mady, (such an attitude)! Everybody in on board with her attitude. But for the most of we the viewers we are more interested in how Kate & Jon (or is it Jon & Kate) interact with each other on the upcoming series. That is TLC for you! As much as I am attracted to this drama of Jon & Kate unraveling in front of millions of people, myself included, I don’t think it is fair to continue airing with eight children having to be the onlookers while being in front of the cameras. I can only imagine how these kids are being prepped before going before the cameras, in regards to their Dad and Mother’s living estranged. Living on the same propety, doesn’t matter! The kids are fully aware that their parents are not living under the same roof and yet they are continuing to be required to perform innocently before the cameras. At whose insistance was the contract renewed? Kate, Jon or both combined? Not only has Mady’s attitude developed! But so have several of the other kids! And only more to follow as long as this series continues to be promoted and aired. Kate came into her own when she realized the power she had at her grasp. I find it annoying and have from the beginning when I listen to her yell, “Jon! Jon! Oh! My! Jon, Jon!” At the top of her lungs! And very annoying when she corrects him progressively during each episode with his lack of English communicative skills before the cameras. If these two ever work out their difference and live in the same bedroom together again would truly amaze me. Kate is on a roll now and she knows it. She is not going to give that up at this early stage of the game. Let Kate take the ball and roll with it. Let Jon out of his contract like he has been saying all along. He just wants to be a regular family man, father. The money was enticing and it has been made. He has lost his freedom and well realizes this. I think he would be better off going back to his roots, working a regular job, walking the streets without the press on his heels and most of all, taking care of and loving his children.

Half Asian Stripper Sisters/1/2 Korean + 1/4 French + 1/2 Welsh + 1 full Caucasian? What does this have to do with anything concerning this or any family well being, mentally and physically? Who cares what their blood line is? I don’t! I am watching on TV real live PEOPLE that are unfolding and allowing it to happen in front of millions of viewers. I don’t care what their lineage is, they are HUMAN BEINGS! I don’t know what my next door neighbors lineage is and I don’t care because it is not important to me. I care that they are safe and happy and take the time to say HI! to me. As much as I hate to admit that I am drawn to the next and next episode of Jon & Kate Plus Eight, it is there to watch! Perhaps the series should become ‘Jon & Kate’ and let them sit together or a part on the couch and talk about the turmoil/s that plague their relationship. Leave the kids out of the series. After all we are all watching ‘Jon & Kate / Kate & Jon’ and not the children. If they want to continue on TV, i.e. $ then give the viewers what they really want to watch, ‘Jon & Kate’! Be real here. From the beginning when the kids were brought home from the hospital, the viewers were tuning in to hear Kate yell, “Jon! Jon! I need help!” We the viewers were all amused at how Jon couldn’t do anything right in Kate’s eyes. Let Jon & Kate become the entire focus of the series if that’s were they want to to continue to be. Kate obviously likes being the focused one. If they want to continue the contract $ then fine. We the viewers would love to watch them as we have already been doing, battle it out on national TV. They have had their fame in front of the cameras, made their $$, have a lovely home, and I feel if their is any saving of this entire family it should be to turn off the cameras and go back to REALITY, i.e. reality behind the cameras and see if they can save something of whatever is left? From a personal viewpoint, “I don’t think Kate will give up the lime light and especially the $$?” She is in a different world now and still going strong, she is not going to fade into the sunset if she has any control over her fate. And for the moment she is very in control of her fate and she knows it, i.e. $$…..Her next book will be something on the level of, “What it is like to be divorced with eight kids.” “Raising eight kids with a father that lives over the garage, guest house.” There are a host of titles that might apply?

Today’s news, ‘Jon is filing for divorce and looking for an apt.’! It is one thing for kids to be in the middle of a divorce in regular life, behind closed doors, but, on live TV? One can’t help but ask the question; “What if”, this couple had never had 6 tuplets and never been on National TV? “What if” they had stopped with just their twins? “Would they be living a happy life today, together, the four of them?” “What if?” Of course we cannot go back and change time! However, I believe Paul Peterson was/is correct, the plug should be yanked from continuing this TV series. It is sad to realize this, but, “In years to come, these kids and especially and more likely than not, some of these 6 tup’s are going to have a feeling of guilt for their parents divorce, i.e. “Mom, Dad, if you hadn’t had all six of us and gone on TV you might have stayed married, etc. etc.!” It is well documented that many children bear the guilt of their parents divorce. It was already evident that these little babies are not oblivious to their parents having troubles. At the famous birthday party, one of the little girls was hugging Jon and telling him that she wanted him to come home! It is also a documented fact that Jon wanted to pull the plug before this season got underway and Kate didn’t. He saw the handwriting on the wall and Kate saw the $ on the wall. So sad! So sad to think that this could have been prevented (or not) but possibly prevented if Kate had followed Jon’ demands to pull the plug before things escalated further in order to save what was left of their private lives. I can just imagine Kate telling their kids, “Everything is going to be fine!” While I know differently because I have more than an ounce of brain! You can’t replace 24/7 of love with visitation consisting of several hours, days a week/month! What a sad mess! What is even more sad is what is to come…..This is only the beginning of the tip of the iceberg. Years to come, it will always come back to these kids being exposed on TV that may have contributed to the divorce of Jon & Kate plus Eight. So sad! You watch; Kate is going to come out with another book with a title similar to, “What it’s like to be a single parent of Jon & Kate plus Eight!”